Essentially you need to look great to attract good guys out there. Its not just about physical appearance but you need to be happy from inside. Be happy with your self, wear what you like and most important is be positive in life. Then with the Smile move out of your house at least once in those 2 weekends which you only end up cleaning your closet and watching Oprah. You can choose to party with friends at a bar or at there places. Point is you should be able to meet people. Step out and check out new places. You will see new faces. As it not just brings to you to a new crowd but also get you connected with good people. At least you can visit your female friends as some of them would have brothers.

Genuineness plays a big role. You need to be genuine in what you do and how you do. So whether it’s a game that you played at one of your friends party or your involvement in any of the community activities. Go ahead with positive mindset. Smile with true care as it attracts boy’s big time. People around would be delighted with such an attitude and warmth.

Lastly it has been said that Boys like attention. When the attention from a lovely smiling face with positive attitude then he really can not hold it to himself. Talk to them with confidence. Find out there interests and likes. If it matches get started with matching up with your interests. For the ones doesn’t just move on. No sulking for that. Life is small and it is a big world with lot of Great people around. Be around people with confidence, talk genuinely and displaying interest and once you are noticed you would start getting them.

Avoid taking risk when it’s at public place with your date. Keep up the excitement from the planning till the time you reach that dance floor. Be original and innovative when you ask for it. Also right in the beginning just ensures that he or she would not give you last minute surprises. No ditching at least. Even if he or she changes his or her mind at the last moment talk it out in person. Pursue him or her by your creative side.

Your confidence plays a great role here and would instill the confidence in your date. So be confident with how you carry yourself. Only get your best pals there who can help you in any awful situation. Else avoid people who would stick to your date and spoil the mood of the dance. Also wear what you feel comfortable in and it should be trendy as well. You can tell your date to wear anything in particular so that you should not be embarrassed later. You can say it’s the dress code or the party theme. Her or his favorite smell would set the correct ambience. Breath mint would be highly suggested. With all this just hit the dance floor. Just enjoy then. Alls well that ends well.

Before you search the right date you should not forget your real self. Be the way you are. Don’t change your self to find some one as later you would regret over it. Rather assess yourself as a person. Try and find out your interests and hobbies. Look back and recall last 5 things you did and you were happy about it. Keep an objective for your self and don’t forget your ambitions. You should evolve as a human being and it should not be lost any where.

Once you know what sort of a person you are, go out and start meeting people. Now there is no room of confusion. Life is small and every single second is worth living to the fullest. Meet people with a smile. You should be presentable in your own comfort and caring as well. Your attitude also plays a great role here. Right attitude with positive mind set and correct body language would get you along with right kind of people.

Don’t be desperate in the beginning. Try and know him or her more. You should know the real person that you are in touch with. No Fads only Facts. Other than the social parties try and meet out side to check how he or she carries her or him self in person. Although in the beginning there would be lot of hesitation. However you have to break the ice slowly and get there. The moment you realize that he or she is the one then don’t waste time. Be committed and get the agreement. It’s very important for both of them to be in agreement. You both should have same beliefs and values about each other.

Learn and meet people around you. Beginning can be by hanging out in parties and bars as there are lots of people available and interesting to talk there. In fact parties are the Rendezvous up for strangers to introduce themselves to each other. And there is no embarrassment. Again if partying or meeting people is not your kinds then go for your hobby. Pursue a hobby where it provides a platform to talk or get involve with people.. Best example is any group sport or community organization. Music lovers can be a part of Music concert and readers can spend some time at the local library.

Looks play a very vital role. Don’t overdo anything. Just ensure you are tidy and presentable. Smile with kindness and maturity in the overall personality attracts people. Be assertive and not desperate. Most important fact is you must be able to speak your mind and act confidently around the girl. They say Women love men who are intelligent and know how to carry themselves. At times guys become over conscious and kill all attraction. That means primarily the Girl should know that you are attracted towards her. And the final determinant is Compatibility. So as long as your interest matches, hobby and tastes are alike you are at the right place. In fact it has been observed that no matter how you look and act once you have a girl you instantly become more attractive even to other people.

• First – Mutual Agreement
  Most graceful break ups have happened mutually. Ensure that you have thought about it and it’s the right reason to move out of the relation. The simple fact is that it diverts your time of blaming each other to looking for solution for both of them. Again to be handled very maturely and considering both with no biases. As the relationship began with the commitment from both. Make up your mind as there is should not be No looking back
• Second – Give Time and Communicate
  Assumptions don’t work here as it only created confusion. Again no fault finding for both. Try and be direct. Remember to accept when it is your turn. No benefit of doubts to be give to either of two. Avoid gaining sympathy. Key is to communicate the right and clear message that it’s not working between the two of you all. Right place to do the same is again an important factor. It should be a closed room conversation and not in public.
• Third – Be Ready for the After Effects
  There would be lot of back and forth questions. May be argument about things which had actually held your relation for so long. Two of you may even cry however don’t forget one moment of distress would let you live your rest of the life in peace. Both of you may come to a point to change each other for love or relation. But you know the actual story as that change should have not waited for the break up. Be clear with your perspective.
• Fourth – Be Normal after the Break up
  Try and be distant from the person you broke with. Avoid places you used to go together as it will remind you of the past. Don’t end up in saying that we will be friends. It will leave that space to create another painful experience and you don’t want that. Break up is difficult but part of life for most of us who are adults. You have to just move on in life.

If you have no time and you want to know whether he likes you or not at this moment then just go ahead and ask him. But this needs guts and he may also say no, which could be insulting. So it is better to drop the idea.

To find out whether the guy likes you or not, notice his body language. If he likes you then he would smile at you whenever there is an eye contact. He would behave very strangely around you. He would try to impress you at every possible chance. He may be nervous when interacting with you. He will be jealous if he finds you with some other guy and will try to show that he is superior to the other guy. This may seem a little ahead of time for you but he tries to show affection by holding your hand and may be sometimes rubbing it.

When you are in a group does he talks to you more often than to anybody else? Does he give you special attention than others? If yes then it’s very obvious that he likes you. He may stare at you when you are not looking. He pays attention to every simple and short thing that you may say. He will always try his best to get your attention.

To read his mind, follow his friends. Whether he tells you or not he will definitely let his friends know about his feelings. And whenever you pass them or you are nearby them his friends will tease him or give him a smile or do something. So you have to notice them carefully.

Does he often calls you and frequently sends messages to you? If yes, you know what he wants. He would call you up frequently without any proper reasons.

As I always say, these article and all these points can only help you but your instincts are the best solution to find out what he thinks, what his feelings are towards you. So let your girly sense and your natural instincts rule and lead you to your Mr. Right.

Okay but how to ensure there a positive reply coming from the other end? Well a love doctor can help. It’s your modesty and truthfulness that often pulls it for you.

Modern day technology has given rise to many more options nowadays. Sending sms’, mails are popular ways but as always saying face to face is the best option. Just the guts to do it and being pragmatic often pull it off in style!

Girls often say “I know today he will say this, what matters are how he asks”. Let’s explore. How about a ‘candlelight lunch’ in the cabin of my office room? It’s not possible…Lunch in broad daylight? Huh…kidding? The room can be prepared…dark papers pasted everywhere. Some saxophone music (Cd’s and speaker will do!), a bottle of wine and say 2 candles! Sound like a perfect date, doesn’t it?

But hold on…is that ‘perfect date’ always possible? Or rather one fine day, just ask her. What if she doesn’t like your style? After all, this is rare occasion (of course unless you are a Casanova). So you got to make it special some how…either you can choose a simple way like taking some balloons and some roses…or singing it to her and playing a guitar maybe…the way doesn’t matters till it shows you care...because that’s what matter in this thing called Love.

And you say, is it so easy…just play some stupid guitar and tell her? Is that so? I will say no that’s not all. Before you ask you must make friendship with her. ‘Love starts from friendship’ is how they like it. You should let her know the condition of your heart …or rather let me put it like this…let all the guys know what you want and let her know by presenting her with some gifts…not costly but caring gifts…maybe a home made card…maybe a chocolate pack and eat it together…maybe something else.

You can read this article and more and more books, but they can only guide you to tell those three words to your ‘sweetheart’. But it’s you and only YOU who can ask. So go ahead believe in yourself and stop reading all these articles and tell her…welcome to the world of Love.

1. Check it out: Before you go out with any guy, make sure who and how he is. Guys look impressive, but they are something else from inside. So, peek a little, ask his friends about him and his nature before dating him



2. Take something with you: Gifts impress guys, always! So, what are you planning to take for your boy on your date? Check his type, what kind of a person he is. If he is a geek, get some gadget for him. However, it is advisable that you should not spend much. Spend a little and be smart. Get a pen for him or write a letter with kisses (of lipstick mark)
3. Walk with Confidence: Confidence plays a critical role in dating. The moment you lose it, that moment you will lose yourself and your self-esteem will be damned. So, be firm and affirmative. Smile with confidence and show him that you are the best!
4. Attitude: Attitude does not mean “I-don’t-give-a-damn” types. Attitude means positive side of your nature. Be kind but smart.
5. Be natural and simple: Do not look funky by wearing lots of make-up. Many guys prefer simple girls and simplicity turns them on.

Follow the above basic steps and for sure, you will get a date with a boy! All the best!

• First Step – Be conscious about your Appearance
  Presence would include the correct way of carrying yourself like perfect clothes and body language. Wear what fits you in with the right style. Try to follow some trends you will also like it. And if wearing any thing other the trends, be confident about it. Else it will go against you. For best of the presence you should also smell good. If not using perfumes then ensure that there is no body odour. It has been observed that people tend to mingle with attractive and good looking people easily.



• Second Step – Right Attitude with Confidence
  Your attitude projects the kind of personality you have. It’s very important to have a nice and pleasing personality. It should give good wibes about you. You should be perceived as the right person with perfect mindset. Try and be interested in things and serious about life. We all like practical yet fun filled things. Being humans we all make mistakes. The one learns how to accept them and correct them is the most successful person. This will be only achieved by positive attitude.
• Third Step – Rapport Building
  You should be able to make the rapport with people you want should like you. Talk softly with people. When you talk to somebody ensure that you are 100% focused to him or her so that he or she would feel the importance. This would set the perfect perception about you. Try and make eye contact. It is developed with positive mind frame and confidence in you. Also ensure to use right words at the right time. Don’t forget that smile that resolves most of the confusion. Share your good experiences.

You will be all set to go out and check the world out which is the most wonderful creation of God. Once it’s the right perception for you it will make it easier for you to create your own place there in the crowd.

Start moving out of your house. Don’t just restrict your self to weekends. In fact at your work or college or event at the Gym you got. Start interacting with people. Get information about them. Basically there interests- Like and dislikes, Hobbies and pastimes. Then you can mingle in the group at the party or even at the office group. Be careful and give attention to what you do. They say most friendly people are attentive to everything they do.

Don’t make it a very obvious attempt that you are looking to make friends. It has to be genuine and even people around you should look up to you for whatever you are. Be conscious as it should not send a wrong message about you. Keep the smile there. Don’t be harsh or rude. Body language with the way you carry yourself creates a lot of difference. Be gentle and fun loving. Ensure that if some one is not like that then you don’t do anything that may offend people around you. That says to choose the right people. They should match your interests and likes.

Irrespective of the past records just move on in life. Life comes with spikes at times. All we can do is move on. Friends are the best assets that anyone can have. So you need to ensure you have the best of the lot. More durable and loyal as it will last forever. Then even you move hundred of miles you would still be connected with them. And in these situations even a 2 line email means a lot. So get along with people with same interests. Don’t forget your real self. Be genuine and nice with a smile. Always be connected as it shows you care.