How to Get a Friend
Looking for friend is like looking for Love. At times you are new to the city or college that you don’t know who to be with. And it also happens that you have been betrayed once and then you just close yourself completely. Key to success to anything in life is Be Yourself. Be in what makes you happy. May be the clothes, the perfume you wear for that matter even the hairstyle. Do what makes you feel good inside.
Start moving out of your house. Don’t just restrict your self to weekends. In fact at your work or college or event at the Gym you got. Start interacting with people. Get information about them. Basically there interests- Like and dislikes, Hobbies and pastimes. Then you can mingle in the group at the party or even at the office group. Be careful and give attention to what you do. They say most friendly people are attentive to everything they do.
Don’t make it a very obvious attempt that you are looking to make friends. It has to be genuine and even people around you should look up to you for whatever you are. Be conscious as it should not send a wrong message about you. Keep the smile there. Don’t be harsh or rude. Body language with the way you carry yourself creates a lot of difference. Be gentle and fun loving. Ensure that if some one is not like that then you don’t do anything that may offend people around you. That says to choose the right people. They should match your interests and likes.
Irrespective of the past records just move on in life. Life comes with spikes at times. All we can do is move on. Friends are the best assets that anyone can have. So you need to ensure you have the best of the lot. More durable and loyal as it will last forever. Then even you move hundred of miles you would still be connected with them. And in these situations even a 2 line email means a lot. So get along with people with same interests. Don’t forget your real self. Be genuine and nice with a smile. Always be connected as it shows you care.