How to Say I Love You
What does this word ‘Love’ actually mean? According to oxford dictionary it’s “an intense feeling of deep affection”. Different people have different perceptions and even more varied ways to say it but it all boils down to the reaction which comes from the other end!
Okay but how to ensure there a positive reply coming from the other end? Well a love doctor can help. It’s your modesty and truthfulness that often pulls it for you.
Modern day technology has given rise to many more options nowadays. Sending sms’, mails are popular ways but as always saying face to face is the best option. Just the guts to do it and being pragmatic often pull it off in style!
Girls often say “I know today he will say this, what matters are how he asks”. Let’s explore. How about a ‘candlelight lunch’ in the cabin of my office room? It’s not possible…Lunch in broad daylight? Huh…kidding? The room can be prepared…dark papers pasted everywhere. Some saxophone music (Cd’s and speaker will do!), a bottle of wine and say 2 candles! Sound like a perfect date, doesn’t it?
But hold on…is that ‘perfect date’ always possible? Or rather one fine day, just ask her. What if she doesn’t like your style? After all, this is rare occasion (of course unless you are a Casanova). So you got to make it special some how…either you can choose a simple way like taking some balloons and some roses…or singing it to her and playing a guitar maybe…the way doesn’t matters till it shows you care...because that’s what matter in this thing called Love.
And you say, is it so easy…just play some stupid guitar and tell her? Is that so? I will say no that’s not all. Before you ask you must make friendship with her. ‘Love starts from friendship’ is how they like it. You should let her know the condition of your heart …or rather let me put it like this…let all the guys know what you want and let her know by presenting her with some gifts…not costly but caring gifts…maybe a home made card…maybe a chocolate pack and eat it together…maybe something else.
You can read this article and more and more books, but they can only guide you to tell those three words to your ‘sweetheart’. But it’s you and only YOU who can ask. So go ahead believe in yourself and stop reading all these articles and tell her…welcome to the world of Love.